

"Neighbors bring food with death and flowers with sickness and little things in between. Boo was our neighbor. He gave us two soap dolls, a broken watch and chain, a pair of good-luck pennies, and our lives. But neighbors give in return. We never put back into the tree what we took out of it: we had given him nothing, and it made me sad." - Scout in Harper Lee's To Kill a Mockingbird

So last week when we were in the mountains for a few days we decided we needed a change of scenery and did the "over the top" drive. that means we left Scofield and headed west, up to Skyline drive and down into Fairview. Then South through Sanpete County. Since I already seem to be in a sentimental mood, I'll tell you how it makes me feel when I take that drive. It reminds me of my dad. He had a cabin near Fairview at Skyline Mountain Resort. Every time we come down out of Fairview canyon, it just reminds me of him. One time (I think I was pregnant with Sierra, so that would be 9 years ago) I helped my dad at his cabin one week. We were tiling the bathroom. He was cutting tile with my mom and I was laying the tile in the bathroom. We only had one little mess up but it was behind the toilet. I was quite proud of our little bathroom. It was fun to hang out and work side by side with my dad. I spent 13 years working side by side with him at Arctic Circle and it was fun to do that under different circumstances. When we were done with the job, Dad drove "over the top" back to Scofield to drop me off where Rick and Summer were waiting for me. I remember that drive and just chit chatting with my dad. One specific thing that I remember is that we heard on the radio that Ricks College in Rexburg would become BYU-Idaho. I have no idea why I remember that little detail. But you know how you remember things like "Where I was when I heard Michael Jackson died...(dropping off a load of grass at the compost place in Provo)...? Well, I will always remember where I was when I found out the great news about BYU-Idaho. I was in Fairview with my dad. hum, funny, the little details, how they stick out in my mind...
For some reason, Cole took an instant liking to Uncle Dell and engaged him in several water bottle sword fights. I thought it was so sweet to see the Father of the Bride take a few minutes to entertain my little blonde boy. 


We went on a little Sunday afternoon bike ride and found ourselves up Hobble Creek Canyon at a campground called jolley's ranch. It was fun. The ride down was great. There is one really big hill going down. Rick was pulling Cole in the bike trailer. He always makes sure that he is far enough in the lead that I cannot see how fast he goes down the hill. He did tell me that when they got down with the hill, Cole said, "wow, I did not like that." 


I just finished reading this book, too. At first I didn't think I would like it, but I stuck with it and it was fun, quick, and easy. I like to read books like this so I can have some books to recommend to my kids. Summer finished the book she was reading yesterday, so she started this one last night.
This is the book that I am reading right now. I am on about chapter 7, but I only read just a few pages each day because it is so jam packed full of good stuff. It's typical Sheri Dew, she doesn't sugar coat anything, she just tells it like it is and tells you to get busy and get to work because you are blessed and lucky and God expects a lot of each of us. I think when I'm done reading this I will go back and read it again and mark some of my favorite parts.





OK, so I figured that the only way to get Cole to use the potty was to fight him about it. For about 3 days I talked to him about using the potty "tomorrow". Well, tomorrow ended up being last Sunday morning. I told him that it was time to use the potty. He refused. so, I refused to put a diaper on him. He laid on his bedroom floor and yelled and screamed and cried for at least an hour. I finally gave in and told him that I would put a diaper on him if he would just try to use the potty. He was fighting me the entire time. I'm sure the whole neighborhood could hear the commotion coming from our house. Somehow when he got on the toilet, he managed to pee. Only a couple of minor accidents this week. He wants to wear a diaper most of the time, but he's always dry when I remind him to potty. He's been dry every morning this week as well. Now I just have to ween him from the diaper during the day. It's amazing how successful this has been once he finally realized what to do.