Halloween 2015

Well, we did it again.  Another Halloween Party in the books.  We opened it up to the entire ward again this year.  Here is the dessert table.  Audrey provided 150 cupcakes.  I didn't think that there would be enough, but I managed to find 5 leftover cupcakes to take to my Sunday School class.  #score

Last year we provided hot dogs and bun.  This year we did potluck soup.  It was a little risky, but I can say that the neighborhood stepped it up this year and really delivered.  Lots of yummy food.

Amara brought a soup and corn bread.

I made 4 loaves of bread, too.

Here's the bish and bish wife:

Kelli, Audrey, and Amara.

The firepit turned out to be a great draw this year even though the weather was PERFECT!!

mission companions

Mission companions, Rick and Aaron Raine

A few weeks ago, I was working on a project in the basement.  Rick was not working that day.  I heard Rick call my name and then come down to the basement to find me.  He had a shocked look on his face.  He said, "Rob just called.  There's been a shooting and 2 Utah County Deputies were shot."  He didn't say it at first and I didn't even want my mind to go far there, but then he added, "And one of them didn't make it."  It was so sobering.  We later discovered that the Deputy that was killed was Cory Wride.  He served in Rick's mission in New York City at that same time as Rick.  They were not ever companions, but had companions in common.  Aaron was Rick's last companion during his mission and he also served with Elder Wride.  Aaron is also a cop in Mesa, AZ so he had another connection to Cory Wride. So, several of Rick's mission companions were in town for the funeral services.  Rick had to work the day of the funeral, but was able to get someone to cover a few hours of his shift in the afternoon.  So, Rick left the hospital and drove to the Cemetery for the graveside service.  He met up with a few of his friends and mission companions.  It took over 2 hours to get from UVU to the cemetery in Spanish Fork.  Schools was dismissed early in Spanish Fork to help alleviate that portion of the traffic situation.  There were several hundred people at the cemetery for the service.  Rick said it was a very impressive scene to drive through town and see Scouts and other bystanders waving American flags.  Even more impressive was the display of officers in uniform, including Aaron from Mesa.  Every department in Utah County was represented along with many departments from throughout the State and other states throughout the country including Alaska.
One thing that happened at the cemetery was called "Last Call."  It's where they call the Deputy over the radio using his name and the formal language of the radio system.  All of the officers at the cemetery had their radios on and it could be heard throughout the cemetery.  Rick recorded it.  We've listened to it a few times now and every time it brings tears to our eyes.  It is so powerful.
I have thought about a few things since this event took place.  A few things come to mind…How grateful I am and how easily I take for granted those people who serve us and protect our lives and our freedoms all the while their lives at risk.  They actually put their lives on the line every singe day to protect each of us.  And we just get to go on living our lives in relative safety without much worry.  I've heard it said that "I wouldn't let my husband work in law enforcement, military, FBI, etc."  And I guess we are all welcome to make that demand.  However, I am now a little more aware of the fact that people do allow their husbands, brothers, fathers, etc. serve and protect me every day, risking their lives so that we can live in a safer, better world.  That really is a big risk they are willing to take.  And Cory Wride took that risk and now his family lives without him in their lives so that Utah could be a safer place.  I'm happy to know that they will be with their father again some day.  I also realize what a small world we live in really.  Although Rick was never companions with Elder Wride, they knew of each other in New York.  And also through their loose connection through the hospital.  Unfortunately, the emergency department and the police force are a little bit more acquainted with each other than I am comfortable with.  But, again, those are choices these people make.  And I am thankful for them for doing so.
So, Aaron and his wife spent some time in our home after the services.  Conversation went back and forth between mission stories and police stories and kid stories and Church stories and back again.  It was a very pleasant evening listening to these two friends remember old times.  It was unfortunate  circumstances, however, that brought them together that evening.  I can see why Rick always talks of his time spent in New York with Elder Raine with fondness.

purple houndstooth

I'm pretty sure that this is my favorite quilt that I have ever made.

Summer helped me choose the color--it had to be purple.

 Because Shelby's favorite color is purple.

Shelby has been a part of our family for the past year.

And she took care of our dog and wouldn't let me pay her.

So we made her a quilt for her birthday.

And so she would always remember how much we love her.

Mississippi Family

OK, as promised I have posted some pictures of my cute MS friends. This was our Easter Egg Hunt. So fun.


Easter 2006

"Friends" vs. Southern Friends

FRIENDS: Never ask for food.

SOUTHERN FRIENDS: Always bring the food. And lots of it.

FRIENDS: Will say "hello".

SOUTHERN FRIENDS: Will give you a big hug and a kiss. More than one.

FRIENDS: Call your parents Mr. and Mrs.

SOUTHERN FRIENDS: Call your parents Mom and Dad, and often.

FRIENDS: Have never seen you cry.

SOUTHERN FRIENDS: Cry with you. And for you.

FRIENDS: Will eat at your dinner table and leave.

SOUTHERN FRIENDS: Will spend hours there, talking, laughing, and just being together.

Then do the dishes before leaving.

FRIENDS: Know a few things about you.

SOUTHERN FRIENDS: Could write a book with direct quotes from you. And most of the time know you better than you do yourself.

FRIENDS: Will leave you behind if that's what the crowd is doing.

SOUTHERN FRIENDS: Will kick the whole crowds' back-ends that left you.

Then walk beside you in the front of the crowd.

FRIENDS: Would knock on your door.

SOUTHERN FRIENDS: Walk right in and say, "I'm home!" If you are not home they will wait.

FRIENDS: Are for a while.

SOUTHERN FRIENDS: Are for life. And then some.

This came from my "Southern Friend" Shaun. For some fun reason we were invited to their most impressive Halloween Party just a few months after we moved to Mississippi. Shaun had a son, Noah, who was in Summer's first grade class. Noah has a twin named Graham. Even though they're boys, They have been great friends with my girls. We spent many a day at the Avalon Pool. Last spring when we planned our trip to MS, I let the Joyners know we were coming to MS and what do you know? They planned a regular old flashlight Easter Egg Hunt just because we were going to be there. I get teary just remembering ALL of my old MS friends. I'll post some pictures of last year's Easter Egg Hunt.