Thursday, February 21, 2008

"Friends" vs. Southern Friends

FRIENDS: Never ask for food.
SOUTHERN FRIENDS: Always bring the food. And lots of it.
FRIENDS: Will say "hello".
SOUTHERN FRIENDS: Will give you a big hug and a kiss. More than one.
FRIENDS: Call your parents Mr. and Mrs.
SOUTHERN FRIENDS: Call your parents Mom and Dad, and often.
FRIENDS: Have never seen you cry.
SOUTHERN FRIENDS: Cry with you. And for you.
FRIENDS: Will eat at your dinner table and leave.
SOUTHERN FRIENDS: Will spend hours there, talking, laughing, and just being together.
Then do the dishes before leaving.
FRIENDS: Know a few things about you.
SOUTHERN FRIENDS: Could write a book with direct quotes from you. And most of the time know you better than you do yourself.
FRIENDS: Will leave you behind if that's what the crowd is doing.
SOUTHERN FRIENDS: Will kick the whole crowds' back-ends that left you.
Then walk beside you in the front of the crowd.
FRIENDS: Would knock on your door.
SOUTHERN FRIENDS: Walk right in and say, "I'm home!" If you are not home they will wait.
FRIENDS: Are for a while.
SOUTHERN FRIENDS: Are for life. And then some.

This came from my "Southern Friend" Shaun. For some fun reason we were invited to their most impressive Halloween Party just a few months after we moved to Mississippi. Shaun had a son, Noah, who was in Summer's first grade class. Noah has a twin named Graham. Even though they're boys, They have been great friends with my girls. We spent many a day at the Avalon Pool. Last spring when we planned our trip to MS, I let the Joyners know we were coming to MS and what do you know? They planned a regular old flashlight Easter Egg Hunt just because we were going to be there. I get teary just remembering ALL of my old MS friends. I'll post some pictures of last year's Easter Egg Hunt.

2 comments:

Nickie said...

I love this! You know it is true too! You have some "southern" bones yourself...you always brought food...FILLED WITH SUGAR! Have I told you how much we miss you? Our new neighbors NEVER leave cupcakes at our front door! (they don't want our left-overs either...ha ha ha)

missliss5/Melissa said...

Veronica and I just sat here and grinned reading all of those. Veronica said, "Southern friends are best." I just loved that whole list!